说到心坎里了。
32了做了六年的文员,工作是轻松了,没啥压力。
加班到手工资才四千有余。刚刚生了二胎,在苏州刚买了房,公司有交五险一金,生育方面没花多少费用,房子贷款三十年,目前两个人公积金够还贷。可是未来怎么办?
产假到期回来各种焦虑,生怕被替代。没事的时候也在想学点什么好?有时候懊悔之前都干嘛了,什么也没有学到?现在轻松苦的可是将来。
老公也是没有上进心的那种,我们一个公司,他朝八晚五的工作轻松些但从没有想过赚点外快贴补家用,唯一的就是下班早了陪陪大宝小宝。我就没完没了的加班,靠着加班费拿工资。我知道这不是长久之计,心理有时候失落的狠。跟老公说这些,他也不理解。婆婆一个带两个孩子,大宝开学二年级,二宝四个月洗衣做饭,家里基本上没有我操心的。也没我老公啥事,久而久之我很讨厌我自己也看不惯我老公的惰性。晚上时不时他还玩王者荣耀,我心里更堵的慌,以后的路好长,孩子一点点长大,父母慢慢变老。房贷,孩子老人,如果哪天我们失业了,在找下一个就回很难。压的喘不过气。
You hit the nail on the head.
I have been a clerk for six years at the age of 32. My job is easy and stress-free.
My salary after overtime is only over 4,000 yuan. I just gave birth to my second child and bought a house in Suzhou. The company pays for five insurances and one housing fund. I didn't spend much money on childbirth. The house loan is for 30 years. Currently, the provident fund for two people is enough to repay the loan. But what about the future?
I am anxious when I return from maternity leave, fearing that I will be replaced. When I have nothing to do, I also think about what to learn? Sometimes I regret what I did before and didn't learn anything? It's easy now, but it will be hard in the future.
My husband is also not ambitious. We are in the same company. He works from 8 to 5 and it's easier, but he has never thought about making some extra money to supplement the family expenses. The only thing he does is to get off work early to accompany Dabao and Xiaobao. I work overtime endlessly and rely on overtime pay to get paid. I know this is not a long-term solution, and I feel very frustrated sometimes. I told my husband about this, but he didn't understand. My mother-in-law takes care of two children alone. The eldest is in the second grade, and the second is four months old. I don't have to worry about anything at home. My husband doesn't have anything to do either. Over time, I hate myself and can't stand my husband's laziness. He plays King of Glory from time to time at night, which makes me feel even more frustrated. The road ahead is so long, the children grow up little by little, and the parents grow old slowly. Mortgage, children and the elderly, if we lose our jobs one day, it will be difficult to find the next one. It's suffocating.
If you can use a mobile phone, you can open a store for one mobile phone. You can do it as a side job or as a full-time job. It is a light entrepreneurial model. I have a baby, so sometimes I earn a few thousand. If I catch up with the current platform activities, I hope I can earn tens of thousands. It doesn't mean that women have no career after having children, nor does it mean that there is no better way out as a clerk. The key is whether there are good opportunities and the courage to be independent.
A clerk's job is probably something that anyone can do. If you want to change careers, you need to analyze your own conditions. The first and most important thing is the family's financial situation. Although the salary of a clerk is low, it can still support life. How much capital accumulation can be made and how much risk can be borne. If you want to change careers, you may face no income or even losses at the beginning. It is also important whether you have other special talents or areas of expertise.
I am also engaged in a similar job as a clerk. I envy you for having the courage to change careers at the age of 30. I can't do it. There are children at home. I have encountered many troubles in the past two years and I can't do it. The most important thing is that I can't cut off my source of income after all, I still have a house loan. I feel that life is almost draining me dry.
Fortunately, I started to work part-time when I was free at work. Although I started a little late, it is really suitable for my situation. It doesn't matter if I work less. There is no risk. The more I work, the more I get. After the bad luck of the past two years, I will work harder on making money.
I am 29 now, and I haven't given birth to my second child yet. I am doing business now, and I can make do with the salary. I am thinking that I will stop working after giving birth to my second child tomorrow, and open a small shop by myself. My current job is related to catering, and I have contact with various catering stores. I still take advantage of this time to learn more about this method and lay a foundation for the future.
Thanks for the invitation
First of all, I don’t want to be a clerk at the age of 30. I think it’s a little late to start what I want to do. I have also had such distress. I want to learn accounting, but I still have to go to the office after learning, which is not in line with the idea I came up with at the beginning. I want to take a higher diploma, but I have to wait for two or three years. Time has passed again. I can’t afford it. What else can I do?
I think I should learn a technology, whether it is snacks, flower arrangement, cake making, or beauty. It’s good to have many skills. I can open a small store by myself, a snack bar, a flower shop, a cake shop or a beauty shop. It’s not too late to start at the age of 30
I have thought about so much, but I haven’t had time to realize it. My current state can actually be used as a reference for you who don’t want to go to work. Just get pregnant with your second child, and you don’t have to go to work and rest at home
Learn e-commerce design, you can work at home, I do this.