大部分人的赚钱能力来源于对新鲜事物的接受度,认可度。
井底之蛙是怎样养成的?封闭自己的思想,断绝自己与外界的链接,很多人说那我也没有办法去链接更多的人,更多的资源啊!
在你自己的领域里面,尽量去找对标,找到那些牛的人,对人家嘘寒问暖,有问题咨询的时候,尽可能的谦卑一点,把自己的姿态放低。
伸手还不打笑脸人,这是生存法则,也是人生必需的修炼。
人生就是一个大的修炼场。
一个人呀,成功的代价必定伴随着某个阶段的孤独,而这种孤独来源于内心坚定的信念。
我不止一次提起过我那个朋友,梁总!创业8年多时间,前三年的痛苦阶段也只有他自己懂,孤独、隐忍、爆发,这是他经常给我提及他那段黑暗时光的一些关键词。
前三年的时光,他是一个独行者,谁都不看好他,创业都是自己借的钱,因为家人没有一个支持他的。
现在可倒好,现在他爸他姐夫,他表哥表姐全在门厂给他打工。
其实现在很多的互联网从业者,基本都是处于这样的一个情况。
认识一个做书单号的朋友,前几天跟他聊天,我说最近在忙什么了?有空来公司坐坐。
他说,也没干啥啊!就把一件事每天重复几百遍,早上起床收拾一下,开始做书单,一天做几十个成品,然后三个账号同步发。
别人周末在玩王者,我做书单;
别人周末出去逛,我做书单;
别人周末花200,我赚1000.
他说,这基本就是他目前的生活状态,没有一点交际。
说个题外话,我真觉得书单号这个东西,有什么做的?你去抖音找找那些做书单的,大部分都是摘抄别人的金句,一天发几十条书单视频。
质量不够,数量凑。误区在哪,误区就在于很多人不理解书单怎么赚钱而已,有的人死都想不明白,这到底是怎么赚钱的?
这还是思维,认知不够。
你看看,做项目就是离不了思维与认知。
其实,三十岁左右是人生非常重要的一个节点,在你做了一系列加法,这些年四处乱跑之后,就是要做一次减法的重要时刻,你要明白不是所有的社交场合都适合你,不是所有的项目都适合你。
八条线拴着你,你能走多远?
有些人做项目就是那样,喜欢朝三暮四,今天看这个项目牛逼,明天看那个项目牛逼,结果把自己看成了傻逼。
千万别左顾右看,深耕一个点多香。
那些朝三暮四的人,极其容易成为别人镰刀下的韭菜。
因为你永远要明白一点,骗子永远比你努力,而普通人太贪,对于骗子来说这就是大众的一个痛点,精准打击就完事。
多去想想自己是如何成为韭菜的???
这个问题想三遍。
你就会恍然大悟。
对于在网上淘金做项目的人,其实我们的孤独期很短,也就三个月,熬过这三个月,项目基本上就慢慢见成效了。但是这三个月的时间却能熬死一大批人。
很多时候是自己断送了自己的前途,我见过很多人买别人的项目,花了1000,或者3000,干了一个月觉得干不下去了,没有执行力,开始抱怨,负面情绪开始涌上来。
我所说的项目,指在合理、可操作为前提的长期项目。
最后甩手走人了。
这个时候想想你爹妈,他们没有因为钱难赚而放弃赚钱吧?所以你们有什么资格抱怨了!最起码得想办法把自己的学费赚回来吧。
想想你爸妈这些年都是靠什么拉扯你长大的
在我的价值观里面,我绝对不花一分冤枉钱,如果花了,我就得想办法把我这一份钱赚回来,毕竟我的钱不是大风刮来的。
Most people's ability to make money comes from their acceptance and recognition of new things.
How do frogs at the bottom of a well develop? Close your mind and cut off your connection with the outside world. Many people say that I can't connect with more people and more resources!
In your own field, try to find benchmarks, find those awesome people, ask them about their well-being, and be as humble as possible when you have questions to consult.
Don't hit a smiling person when you reach out your hand. This is the law of survival and a necessary practice in life.
Life is a big practice field.
For a person, the price of success must be accompanied by loneliness at a certain stage, and this loneliness comes from a firm belief in the heart.
I have mentioned my friend, Mr. Liang, more than once! After more than 8 years of entrepreneurship, only he himself understands the painful stage of the first three years. Loneliness, forbearance, and outbreak are some of the keywords he often mentions to me about his dark time.
In the first three years, he was a loner, no one was optimistic about him, and he borrowed money to start his own business because none of his family supported him.
Now it’s good, now his father, brother-in-law, and his cousins all work for him in the door factory.
In fact, many Internet practitioners are basically in this situation.
I know a friend who makes a book list account. I chatted with him a few days ago. I asked him what he was busy with recently? Come to the company when you have time.
He said, I didn’t do anything! I just repeat one thing hundreds of times every day. I get up in the morning, clean up, and start making book lists. I make dozens of finished products a day, and then send them to three accounts simultaneously.
Others are playing King of Glory on weekends, I make book lists;
Others go out on weekends, I make book lists;
Others spend 200 on weekends, I make 1,000.
He said that this is basically his current life status, without any social interaction.
To digress, I really think what is the purpose of this thing called Booklist? If you go to Douyin to find those who make booklists, most of them are just excerpting other people's golden sentences and posting dozens of booklist videos a day.
The quality is not enough, but the quantity is enough. Where is the misunderstanding? The misunderstanding is that many people don't understand how booklists make money. Some people can't figure it out. How on earth does it make money?
This is still thinking, not enough cognition.
You see, doing projects is inseparable from thinking and cognition.
In fact, around the age of 30 is a very important node in life. After you have done a series of additions and run around all these years, it is an important moment to do a subtraction. You must understand that not all social occasions are suitable for you, and not all projects are suitable for you.
With eight lines tying you, how far can you go?
Some people do projects like that. They like to change their minds from day to day. Today they think this project is awesome, and tomorrow they think that project is awesome. As a result, they think they are stupid.
Don't look around, it's more fragrant to cultivate one point deeply.
Those who change their minds frequently are extremely likely to become leeks under the sickle of others.
Because you must always understand that scammers are always harder than you, and ordinary people are too greedy. For scammers, this is a pain point for the public, and precise strikes will be enough.
Think more about how you became a leek? ? ?
Think about this question three times.
You will suddenly realize it.
For those who are doing projects on the Internet, our loneliness period is actually very short, only three months. After these three months, the project will basically see results slowly. But these three months can kill a large number of people.
Many times, it is their own future that is ruined. I have seen many people buy other people's projects, spend 1,000 or 3,000, and feel that they can't do it after working for a month. They have no execution ability, start complaining, and negative emotions begin to surge.
The projects I mentioned refer to long-term projects that are reasonable and feasible.
Finally, they walked away.
Think about your parents at this time. They didn’t give up making money because it was hard to make money, right? So what qualifications do you have to complain! At least you have to find a way to earn back your tuition.
Think about how your parents raised you all these years.
In my values, I will never spend a penny in vain. If I spend money, I have to find a way to earn back my money. After all, my money is not blown by the wind.
Examples of essays on loneliness, take "My Loneliness" as an example. The details are as follows:
My Loneliness
A philosopher once said: "Loneliness is a kind of beauty". I like loneliness. For me, loneliness is also a kind of beauty in life.
Loneliness is a kind of detachment. I like to put a cup of light green and fragrant silver needle tea on the desk at midnight when everything is quiet and the lights are dim, burn incense and hold a book, or feel the eternal masterpiece of the love between men and women and the ambition in poems; or try to figure out the truth and falsehood, gossip and rumors in biographies; or sigh at the fate and impermanence of life in novels. Between the yearning, wandering outside the reality. Forget the hustle and bustle of the world "all for profit", put aside the trivial life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, pots and pans, and leisurely walk under the eastern fence of Nanshan.
Loneliness is a kind of leisure. Through reading, I can follow the swordplay of Jin Yong in the dangerous rivers and lakes; or follow Xu Zhimo to fully appreciate the love in the turbulent times; or go back a thousand years and savor the desolate sorrow of Qu Yuan who had no way to serve his country. Sometimes "an old man talks about the youth's wildness", sometimes "eight thousand miles of clouds and moon"... At this moment, this kind of spiritual ecstasy is so leisurely and comfortable!